Solution....find that special table you absolutely love the style but not the finish and have it redone. Just like you can change the material on that old couch you love but is worn, you can do the same with wood.
For instance....this adorable bedroom set was brought to us, bought at a thrift store and was in not so good condition. It looked old, no personality, just a plain solid light color. We took it and refinished it in a two tone finish. Cream solid color with a dirty brush glaze, and our Tobacco furniture technique as an accent.